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Au Pair Job Description

It is common for both families and au pairs to sometimes be confused as to what precisely an au pair is and what they are meant to do. And its true, that the boundaries are blurred between whether they are a house guest or part of the family, a paid worker or earning their keep, a child-minder or a babysitter.

Well, it’s a bit of all of the above! An au pair’s job description is as individual as the family they are working for and an exact classification of what they do is a slightly grey area. However, by reading the following advice, things should hopefully become a little clearer!

What is an Au Pair?

The nearest to an accurate job description might be:

A young person aged between 18 and 30 years old, who comes to live as part of a British family in order to learn English and experience the British way of life, and in exchange, helps the family with housework and the children.

An Au Pair does Housework and Babysitting

Once it is understood what an au pair is, the role they do is broken into two distinct parts:

1. To help with light housework
2. To help with childcare

Because au pairs don’t fall under the jurisdiction of Employment Law (and therefore do not have a formal contract of employment), the Home Office has put together guidance as to what an au pair might be expected to do. This is designed to prevent the exploitation of young girls (and some boys!) as well as lay down a code of conduct which families and au pairs are expected to follow.

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What an Au Pair and Family will Expect from the Au Pair Experience

While one au pair may be quite happy to do certain jobs, another may not and vice versa – so before approaching any au pairs think about what you need them to do. Work out a sample timetable to help clarify your thoughts, then when you find an au pair you like, check that they’re content with the list you’ve made before you accept them. This will help to avoid confusion and upset at a later stage.

Sometimes, of course, au pairs might be perfectly happy to do certain jobs which are not normally seen as ‘acceptable’. For example, some may not mind washing floors, cleaning windows or cooking for the whole family (things which normally an au pair should not be asked to do) – but you would need to ask if they minded and not take it for granted.

Individual Au Pair Skills

Each au pair is an individual and has different preferences and skills, so it is wise to have a chat with them to see what they enjoy doing before accepting them – after all a happy au pair is a happy family! For instance, an au pair who does not like animals will be no good for a family who would like their au pair to walk the dog during the day! Similarly, if you need your au pair to prepare snacks and simple meals for your children before you come home from work, then don’t choose an au pair who doesn’t know one end of a tin-opener from another!

Housework versus Looking after Children

In the same way, some au pairs prefer jobs that entail more of a bias towards housework and less childcare. These girls will suit families who have school-age children who are out for most of the day and want an au pair to help them keep on top of the household tasks.

However, some girls applying for the au pair scheme do so because they hope to work with children in some capacity in the future and want to gain more experience. These sort of candidates, then, would suit families who need an au pair to help tutor their children or entertain pre-school age children who need more looking after and personal engagement during the day.

For a quick checklist of acceptable and unacceptable jobs for au pairs, see the lists below, but meanwhile…

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Don’t Give an Au Pair a Job You Wouldn’t Do Yourself!

As long as you only give your au pair jobs that you would also be happy to do or to help with and treat them as part of the family, then things are unlikely to go wrong.

Acceptable Jobs for Au Pairs:

Loading/unloading the dishwasher
Sweeping, dusting, vacuuming, tidying, clearing surfaces
Helping put shopping away, hang up washing
Preparation/cooking of simple meals
Helping care for pets

Unacceptable Au Pair Jobs:

Washing clothes
Scrubbing kitchen floors
Cleaning carpets
Cleaning windows
Changing beds
Lifting heavy loads

Expected Childcare Duties:

Helping children to get ready in the morning
Taking the children to school
Collecting the children and taking them to after-school clubs
Helping children with homework
Playing with children
Helping with children’s bed-times

Unacceptable Childcare Duties:

Being left in sole charge of children under 3 years old, unless merely babysitting while they sleep
Being left alone overnight with children
Looking after children without a break for more than five hours per day
Heavy lifting
Taking to hospital appointments unless in emergency
Attending school functions, unless voluntarily
Cooking for the entire family, unless voluntarily